Life has so much more to offer to us, but we often forget about that and get stuck so easily in so small thinking patterns. They’re so tiny, but it’s so hard to get out from there.

I don’t even have any solution, I guess each one of us should figure out something for themselves. The key is to think in the direction of how to be independent.

But the thing is that your surroundings will most probably do everything possible to keep you in a “safe” area. And that’s one of the traps. All your life you’ve probably been taught that you need to listen to your parents and other older people, cause they know better. All your life you’ve been rewarded for obeying the rules and punished for not to.

So in this case, even your own mind will tell you, are you doing something wrong? C’moon, everybody (in your surrounding) live their little lives with big depts, what’s wrong with you? Why aren’t you happy?

Well, you’re not happy, cause this is the way you are. And if you are not, it’s better to admit it to yourself. The thing is, generations after generations have been getting it wrong. Trying to please authorities around them (parents, teachers, bosses, partners) and passing this wrong pattern to their kids.

So if you see yourself as a bit different, not fitting, don’t worry, it’s probably for the best. These patterns are standing on their adepts, like financial pyramids, the more “victims” the stronger it is. So when somebody is trying to get out from the system, other ones usually take it hard and try even harder to keep you in the safe circle.

And here you’ll need to reeducate yourself. You’ll do “the bad” thing, while it’s actually good. And faster you do it, the easier it will be. Instead of putting energy into trying to fit yourself into the system that was designed to consume your time and energy while giving you a false image of safety, you’ll put your energy into exploring your true powers and abilities and truly contribute to the world and yourself.